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fear of getting old

When the fear of getting old is in our hearts. It's like an alarm clock, saying it's time for conversion. The future plans may seem as if they have fallen into a zeitnot situation. This type of fear has a positive purpose. It forges us to realize how time is precious like thanksgiving festivals. Happy holidays everyone.
Well said Tenzin.
By the way, His Holiness is now 81 years old and does not seem to be afraid of anything.
@iamoldlob #22
ok this a bit of nitpicking but this is such an interesting topic and I have actually written some stuff about it somewhere, somewhen :) so here is a small resume:
the purpose of life is an everlasting philosophical inquiry and there have been many tries for a defenitive answer.
Among the prevalent theories:
a)loving and sharing
b)improvement of one's self/ improvement of society
c)do everything that brings you pleasure/happiness
d)nothing aka life is purposeless and more like a random joke
e)nothing specific the purpose of one's life is determined by the one living it
and many more...
now actually each theory has its own problems and the theory that #22 mentioned is one of the most ancient and respectable ones but here is an argument that this theory has problems dealing with
Let us say that eating chocolate makes you happier than eating fruits. If you only value the pleasure/happiness and you start eating tons of candy everyday, you might end up being 300kg one day and probably sad about it. So despite actually doing the thing that brings you the most happiness every day you might become sad in the long run.
Of course this not the end of the story, but I thought it might be worth mentioning although now that I did, to be honest, I dont know why :)
Happy hanuka/christmas or whatever you celebrate everyone!

#24 MorningCoffee: Every man has his own ways of happiness including eating candy and chocolate but one is shortening one's life if it become uncontrollable binge. It is the same with drinking hard liquor and gambling. If these are the ways of one's happiness then just do it. Some people just want to live fast and die young. A man is a master of himself if he is able to control his emotions. MorningCoffee I just come to know your lichess credentials are very commendable. Thank you.
@ #24:

I don't have any idea how to explain this to my fey mother (81).

I wish i could...
Living is trying to lengthen the time before death so that it seems as short as possible.
#26 karlgoethebier: If she is not doing anything to hurt other just let it be because she is already quite advance in age (81). Let her be happy.

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